A little support for wherever you are
Tools, conversations, and resources to help you understand your patterns, trust yourself more, and practice choosing yourself in your actual life.
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on podcasts
I bring honest, engaging conversations about people-pleasing, self-trust, boundaries, and what it really means to stop abandoning yourself. Whether I’m joining you on stage or behind a microphone, my goal is to leave your audience feeling understood, challenged, and reminded of one important truth: you make sense.
Invite Jen to Speak
1243: Jill Nicolini Interviews Jen Starkey, Owner & Founder of Willful Joy Coaching and Consulting
28 minutes • August 13, 2026
1243: Jill Nicolini Interviews Jen Starkey, Owner & Founder of Willful Joy Coaching and Consulting: Part One
21 minutes • July 23, 2026
1243: Jill Nicolini Interviews Jen Starkey, Owner & Founder of Willful Joy Coaching and Consulting: Part Two
21 minutes • July 23, 2026
1243: Jill Nicolini Interviews Jen Starkey, Owner & Founder of Willful Joy Coaching and Consulting
29 minutes • August 20, 2026
1243: Jill Nicolini Interviews Jen Starkey, Owner & Founder of Willful Joy Coaching and Consulting
28 minutes • July 30, 2026
1243: Jill Nicolini Interviews Jen Starkey, Owner & Founder of Willful Joy Coaching and Consulting
28 minutes • July 9, 2026
1243: Jill Nicolini Interviews Jen Starkey, Owner & Founder of Willful Joy Coaching and Consulting
31 minutes • July 16, 2026
1243: Jill Nicolini Interviews Jen Starkey, Owner & Founder of Willful Joy Coaching and Consulting
28 minutes • August 14, 2026
Learn how to care about the people you love without absorbing their emotions, managing their reactions, or making yourself responsible for how they feel.
People-pleasing, overachieving, staying busy, and always taking care of everyone else can look like strengths—until they become the very patterns keeping you disconnected from yourself.
A free webinar to help you understand why you people-please, overthink, struggle with boundaries, or feel guilty choosing yourself—and what can begin to change when you realize that you make sense.
Make moves today!